Mondays are always be least favorite day of the week. I am scheduled to be busy from 7am-7:30pm with one two hour gap of break before noon (I’m skipping a class today). However I there is one good thing about Mondays, and that is Blimeycow. Blimeycow is a youtube channel that comes out with a new video every monday. They are always very entertaining, funny, aimed at college/high school students and usually have a Christ based message. This week the topic was about being single. I’ve seen so many people think they need to have a boy/girl friend. “If only I was in a relationship, than I would be happy.” This has always bothered me. If you can’t be happy outside of a relationship, there is no way you could be happy inside of a relationship. Yet we are conditioned to believe we need a relationship to be happy. When it comes to societies norms about relationships, I am considered “weird.” Deep inside do I desire a relationship? Yeah, sure. It would be nice to have something like that. But I would much rather wait. Not necessary wait for the right women, but wait until I am ready. I don’t have any interest in dating for fun, if I were to date someone it would be for the long run. Because of this I want to make sure I am ready. I want to give this girl(who ever she may be) the best I can because she would deserve it. I want to be strong enough, mature enough, responsible enough, and wise enough. I want to make sure I am firmly planted with Christ. I want to be in inspiration to her, I want to help her in our path towards the Cross. In short, I want to be a man of God utilizing my strengths and weaknesses, and nothing less.
On a side note I have time over time been committed of being a commitment-phoebe. In all honesty, I can accept that to be true, but it is because I want to make sure I am the person that a girl needs to maximize her faith in Christ. I am deeply scared to be anything less than that.
Anywho I wanted to share Blimeycow’s video this Monday because I completely agree with it and it should be shared to teenagers (especially young ones) everywhere!